
A game I've rolled with for... a while recently had a pretty catastrophic Fiasco between a lot of the longer-running players/plot writers and other staff. Which basically all started, from what I can tell and what I've heard from people involved in said Fiasco, from a joking comment that fell flat due to tone being nigh impossible to read on the internet and accidentally hitting a touchy subject for the person being joked to*.
*A "Is this a thing that's allowed?" type of question, responded with a goofy "NOOOO" which was intended as a "No shit Sherlock, that was a very dumb question" but got interpreted by the asker as "No, we don't want you here". It snowballed from there. Especially because the asker's response to that, which was intended to be a "polite reference to an article that explains better how this felt than I can articulate" was then interpreted by the answer-er as "Passive Aggressive Public Post Of Why You Are Specifically The Worst Kind Of Asshole."
Which eventually exploded in a few different low-level peeves being brought up, because of COURSE when something happens every unrelated thing gets pulled up as well as evidence of how this side or that side is wrong.
Which snowballed even further into conflicts between people who like x kinds of plots and people who like y kinds of plots, the people who wanted PVP options and the people who held that PVP is Always Bad, this qualm about the disorganization inside the writer/NPC circle, how bad an idea it is to have one of the writers doing the plots for her own PC, so on and so forth.
SHORT VERSION, a lot of the people from my personal friends group ended up saying "Fuck this" and leaving that particular game. Which means I'm probably going to be bailing on the game too, since the number of personal friends was one of the main things anchoring me there, because it's a roughly 3 hour drive each way to that one and that shit gets 1) tiring and 2) expensive.
I didn't do the big "I'm leaving" announcement because I wasn't involved at all in the underlying Fiasco and I've got people I'm good friends with on both sides of it, so I don't want to burn any bridges.
...But man, it's pretty damn funny to me to see the group of people who stayed (which was largely the "Knee-jerk read bad faith into every comment, PVP options should NEVER HAPPEN because it's BAD, What do you mean there might be an issue with writing your own plot?" section) suddenly panicking about next month's game because about 2/3 of their usual NPC group left.